We have just spent a couple of nights at The Royal Hotel in Bideford Devon with our good friends and neighbours Glenda and Keith. The weather was very kind to us and we managed some nice walks. Gerry suffered greatly from fatigue (a function of the chemotherapy) and was limited as to how much he could do before he needed to rest (sleep!). However, the other three managed very well without him for one walk.
The first photo is a view from Fremington Quay and was quite beautiful in the winter sunshine The second photo is a view from the Tarka Trail near Torrington where we also found the wooden man sitting beside a decapitated wooden woman!
We were surprised that a murmuration of starlings appeared and eventually went to roost below the bridge.
It was quite a sight as the birds flew over the river wheeling, turning and swooping in unison constantly growing in numbers over at least a quarter of an hour.
The hotel’s winter break was great value and the food tasty with very generous portions! I think the four of us really enjoyed the food but may have eaten too much!
We visited Jess, Jon and Oscar last Sunday and had a super afternoon – Annie managed to cuddle Oscar for 2 hours continuously whist he slept (his sleeping had not been good for the previous couple of days). The visit was made even better when Lucy and James also dropped in for a visit. It was nice to catch up with the children and the newest grandchild.
On Friday we visited James and Hannah’s home for lunch. Their house is coming along well they have done so much and yet still have a lot to do but it will be beautiful once completed. Rosie was on good form. She enjoyed opening some presents including one from Auntie Jo in California and she also enjoyed wearing some wellington boots that we had taken. Once she had mastered how to walk in them she did not want to take them off. Lunch was wonderful and Gerry had a nap before we headed home (Gerry having naps is the order of the day at the moment).
We hope everyone had a very Happy Christmas. We should have been visiting Jenny, Mark and the children for Christmas lunch but unfortunately even the best laid plans can hit problems. Ours was Christmas Eve when Gerry felt unwell and had a temperature. Annie rang the Chemotherapy Help Line (as per the instructions given to Gerry) and was told that we should go to the hospital. Gerry was admitted and stayed until Christmas Day afternoon. Whatever the problem, the medics got it under control quickly and he left with even more tablets to take.
Many thanks to the staff at The Great Western Hospital Swindon for their care and kindness (and the visit from Santa and the turkey lunch).
PS If you are ever unfortunate enough to be admitted to the hospital do not despair the food is brilliant especially the soups!
For a good few months we had been intending a December visit to Putsborough Sands in North Devon and to stay in a block of flats where our neighbours Glenda and Keith have stayed previously. Gerry seemed fit so we decided on a Friday to go and two days later we arrived for a four night stay. It was great that Glenda and Keith were also staying in the flat above us. The nearest village was Georgeham about 1.7 miles away (with one village shop) and, from what we could tell, we were the only occupants of the block! It was absolute heaven to be so quiet. Our flat was brilliant with 2 double bedrooms, a large sitting room (with balcony), a separate dining room and fantastic views. The following two photographs show the views from our balcony
The weather was really quite kind and we had a lovely day exploring to the north of Putsborough Sands with Glenda and Keith. They had lived in the area for many years and were fantastic guides. Our trip included Ilfracombe where we went to Damien Hurst’s gallery and also saw his statue called Verity which looks out over the harbour entrance. The statue is quite controversial but we found it provoked some thought (Look it up on the web and see for yourselves).
We then travelled further north along very narrow coastal roads that the average tourist would never come across eventually deciding to go for a walk beside a stream through a lush wooded river valley down to the sea at Heddon’s Mouth beach. The walk could not have been much more than a mile each way and was delightful but very, very windy at the beach such that we did not venture across the rocks!
The following day we headed south with Glenda and Keith as our guides ending up at Hartland Point. It was extremely windy with short sharp showers but went for a walk towards the lighthouse eventually finding the path was gated and locked! The walk was bracing but not as bracing as our next stop at Hartland Quay. The sea certainly did not look that inviting! We had a great day out and spent the evening at the pub in Georgeham where we all ate heartily! (something to do with the sea air)
Our final full day was spent on our own. We enjoyed walks along Saunton Sands, the cliffs at Woolacombe and along the beach at Putsborough just below our flat. Although it was windy in the morning, we were both wrapped up warm and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.
Whilst on the beach at Putborough we could see no other people at all on the beach. Bearing in mind that the beach extends 2 miles plus to Woolacombe that was quite something.
Many thanks to Glenda and Keith for their company and guiding skills! But all too soon our time was up and we left them (now the only occupants of the block of flats) and headed home via Bristol where we popped in to see Oscar (and of course Jess and Jon). All three are doing well!
We have had a busy couple of days. On Friday we visited Jess and Jon and our new grandson Oscar James. Home from hospital they are settling in and Jon and Jess are coming to terms with the fact that life has changed (for the better) for ever.
Annie was as besotted as the parents!
On Saturday we visited Hannah and James’s new home in North Cheriton on the Somerset Dorset border. They have had the keys for 4 weeks but have made incredible progress. They have had many walls re-plastered, floors sanded, boiler moved, new back doorways put in and a new bathroom ready to be installed. There is still a lot to do but the top floor should become habitable within the week. The garden has tremendous potential but will require a lot of work over a couple of years no doubt. It will be a wonderful home and has already got Hannah and James stamp on kit!
Oscar James Henderson was born just after 2 am on 25th November in Southmead Hospital Bristol. He weighed in at 3.99kg (8lb 13oz) and mum and son are doing well.
As I write this Jon, Jess and Oscar have returned home. Life has changed for Jon and Jess but I am sure they will cope!
Congratulations to Jess and Jon on the addition to their family and a big and very warm welcome to Oscar.
The first part of November has been quite eventful!
We enjoyed a family gathering at the start of the month. All our UK family (except for Lucy’s James who was sleeping off a busy night shift) visited for our pre-Christmas/Thanksgiving lunch. The two youngest members of the family (Rosie and Elsie) got on really well together and amused themselves for quite some time. Callum and Bethany did some craft work and watched a movie whilst the adults sat and chatted together. It was a lovely day and thanks again to Annie for providing a wonderful lunch.
Gerry underwent his second Chemotherapy cycle without any problems on the 5th of the month but 7 days later he went to bed early feeling rotten and was then sick and developed a slight temperature. As a result he spent 2 nights in hospital.
We managed a walk to Brentor Church and then another walk along the river and canal in Tavistiock itself. The next morning we spent nearly 2 hours wandering around the Pannier Market in Tavistock before driving across Dartmoor to Chagford where we did a 2 mile circular walk which included a stretch along the bank of the River Teign. It was delightful, peaceful and we beat the rain! We then drove home as the weather steadily got worse. Only one night away but 2 good days spent in an area that we really do like – brilliant.
Gerry and Annie were both pleased with the amount of walking accomplished. It was nothing like what we used to do but a considerable improvement on what we have been able to do over the last couple of months. Annie’s knee held up well although she still suffers some pain. We hope her knee contniues to improve.
I felt so good that after my medical appointment on Tuesday we decided we would go away for a couple of days. We set off Wednesday morning for two nights in Cornwall. We based ourselves in Looe in an area of Cornwall that we either did not know or had not visited for many years. Looe is a town of two halves either side of the tidal estuary of the river of the same name. We were expecting to stay in East Looe in a smart hotel overlooking the estuary.
We really enjoyed the peaceful (and almost completely car free) town and harbour in gentle sunshine.
Gerry marvelled at the photographs of the 2013-14 winter storms pounding the harbour wall and the massive hydraulic gate that could be closed to protect the very small harbour from the ravages of the sea.
Our hotel turned out to be rather drab looking but the bedroom and sitting room in our suite were just like the photos on the internet and very nice indeed – we were even able to enjoy a glass of wine sitting on our balcony before going out to eat. East Looe has some wonderful restaurants and during our stay we enjoyed two wonderful evening meals in different very smart seafood restaurants. Annie and I are both quite dismayed at how our appetites have got so much smaller and we now realise that even 2 courses can be far too much!
The next morning we set off to travel the relatively short Looe Valley railway line (operated by First Great Western) The trip to Liskeard was pleasant but would have been even more picturesque if the sun had been shining. We travelled straight back to Looe on the train and then spent the day visiting Newquay, where we walked on the beach and watched surfers braving the cold water.
Next we travelled to St Austell, where we stayed long enough to reset the satnav!, and then to Mevagissey where we thoroughly enjoyed a coffee sitting in leather armchairs looking through open windows to the harbour (idyllic). Our final stop was the very small Talland Bay where we encountered one family on the seashore, and a couple of men walking a dog. (magic).
We had originally hoped to spend Friday morning exploring more of this part of Cornwall but the weather was grim so we decided to just head home having thoroughly enjoyed our short visit.
Gerry started Chemotherapy on 15 October at The Great Western Hospital in Swindon. The session was long (0830 to 1715) but went well. Two days on he has experienced no significant side effects.
Many thanks to everyone who has sent messages of love and encouragement.